Tuesday, October 26, 2004
party pondering
This weekend was a party in london - the glory of mega bus (if you are going to go by bus go cheap in firm seats - it's comfier that national express, however if you can get the train do it) and a party in Hayes. This time no getting incomprehensibly drunk - but entertained by people who nearly were. The chaps ex was there afterall and I think it threw him. He was honest which was good, and I don't see her as such an issue (now I know the things that are new and the complications she choses to be in I think it must be very sad to see someone you cared for chosing such a toxic seeming place to be in her life. Did previously - she wears the clothes, has the curves, looks the part and shows the evidence of lunacy that fits the description of what he says he wants better than I. However I know I'm more straight forward and probably come with less issues now, and I'm probably more predictable and easier to negotiate/compromise with).
I've seen one very successful Menage a trois (were all 3 parties fancied each other for it's 18 month life) although the aftermath has been hideous. I've seen one very linear one - but at least the women on either side communicated or chose to not be in the same place at the same time. This situation seemed to be in an uncomfortable position though - but I'm looking in on it so what do I know. Perhaps all the signs were wrong and actually both ladies are happy. I have to say for me EUGH why do women put such sleazy blokes at the centre of these things? There must be more to him than meets the eye!
Overall a good party and a relaxing weekend. Shame I'm drowning under paperwork (so done none) at home, but work is picking up and the course is in that mid semester about to get hairy zone I suspect...Car went to auction last week and awaiting results, John Peel Died today - that was a shocker. Lets hope he is being dry and amuzing in another reality somewhere.
I've seen one very successful Menage a trois (were all 3 parties fancied each other for it's 18 month life) although the aftermath has been hideous. I've seen one very linear one - but at least the women on either side communicated or chose to not be in the same place at the same time. This situation seemed to be in an uncomfortable position though - but I'm looking in on it so what do I know. Perhaps all the signs were wrong and actually both ladies are happy. I have to say for me EUGH why do women put such sleazy blokes at the centre of these things? There must be more to him than meets the eye!
Overall a good party and a relaxing weekend. Shame I'm drowning under paperwork (so done none) at home, but work is picking up and the course is in that mid semester about to get hairy zone I suspect...Car went to auction last week and awaiting results, John Peel Died today - that was a shocker. Lets hope he is being dry and amuzing in another reality somewhere.